SOME ONLY LOVE THE IDEA OF YOU PT 2
Where did I stop the last time please?? Knock knock !!
Before you ask, no! This is not a gossip blog but sometimes TATAFO must follow hahaha...
So like I said, I had become uncle's goal and he doubled up effort to make sure he won me over. Did it work? Hell yes!!
If you had that kind of man doing the right things, saying the right things and living by them, smelling the right way, playing the right way, then you would understand why a sister could not resist his charm.
You know, there is something sexy about a man that acknowledges his wrong and readily apologises? Gosh! He was perfect.
But ........
He has just one hurdle to cross and that was defending the very love he claimed he had for me.
So here I am hoping that after the talk I had planned in my head, we would kickstart oyr love story but I was wrong. Sad right?
Me: Babe, why do you love me?
Him: I love you for who you are.
Me: Babe, that is so vague. Tell me one good reason.
Him: Who wouldn't love you? You no dey look yourself for mirror?
Just like the smash of that mirror, my heart sank.
What?????
You mean all this while, it was the IDEA of me you loved and not my substance? Will my beauty cover up for nasty attitudes if I had any? Will my beauty give you counsel for life, spirituality, finances or raise your kids? Who beauty don earn am noble prize?
Anyways, to cut the story short and since I do not lie to myself, I carried my disappointment and left before it will climax to some thing I cannot get away from.
Please do not judge me for throwing away such a perfect man because if I did not, I would have missed my King who loves my brain and not my beauty. At least with him, if I didn't have these mesmerising eyes and beautiful cheek bone anymore, he wouldn't really care.
My dearest Kings and Queens, it is advisable to always know why someone chose you out of the billions of people we have on earth. If they are captivated by your physical attributes only which will fade away at some point, I suggest you re-evaluate.
Before you ask, no! This is not a gossip blog but sometimes TATAFO must follow hahaha...
So like I said, I had become uncle's goal and he doubled up effort to make sure he won me over. Did it work? Hell yes!!
If you had that kind of man doing the right things, saying the right things and living by them, smelling the right way, playing the right way, then you would understand why a sister could not resist his charm.
You know, there is something sexy about a man that acknowledges his wrong and readily apologises? Gosh! He was perfect.
But ........
He has just one hurdle to cross and that was defending the very love he claimed he had for me.
So here I am hoping that after the talk I had planned in my head, we would kickstart oyr love story but I was wrong. Sad right?
Me: Babe, why do you love me?
Him: I love you for who you are.
Me: Babe, that is so vague. Tell me one good reason.
Him: Who wouldn't love you? You no dey look yourself for mirror?
Just like the smash of that mirror, my heart sank.
What?????
You mean all this while, it was the IDEA of me you loved and not my substance? Will my beauty cover up for nasty attitudes if I had any? Will my beauty give you counsel for life, spirituality, finances or raise your kids? Who beauty don earn am noble prize?
Anyways, to cut the story short and since I do not lie to myself, I carried my disappointment and left before it will climax to some thing I cannot get away from.
Please do not judge me for throwing away such a perfect man because if I did not, I would have missed my King who loves my brain and not my beauty. At least with him, if I didn't have these mesmerising eyes and beautiful cheek bone anymore, he wouldn't really care.
My dearest Kings and Queens, it is advisable to always know why someone chose you out of the billions of people we have on earth. If they are captivated by your physical attributes only which will fade away at some point, I suggest you re-evaluate.



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