BEST WAYS TO KICK YOUR PROBLEMS IN THE BUTT.
Stop teaching young people to hide their emotions instead of expressing it.
You people be motivating the wrong way.
If someone feels frustrated, let them cry, brood, swear, punch the wall of it makes them feel better. I prefer to tell them cry about it, laugh at it, pray about it but face that proble head on.
I once had a client who came to me and said she is ugly and that could be the reason why men don't want her. I affirmed it! Weird right? Wait for it.
I told her of cos you are ugly. Look how big your nose is, your eyes are so red like you smoke weed and your dress sense is zero. I can't even understand most of your words because of your pronunciation. By the time I was done listing the things that was wrong with her, she was already crying. I let those things sink in while she sobbed for about 20 minutes.
After we were done crying, I showed her a picture of a physically impaired lady that married the love of her life and went ahead to tell her all the good things about her she left unappreciated.
Next we did was image branding and she agreed to take a one month diction class.
Today she is a proper lady. Na money be fine sissy abeg lol.
How about a guy that came to me that he is poor, nothing is working for him and he is scared that women might not want a poor guy like him. What do you see wrong here? Confidence is at 0%.
After bashing him as is my tradition, I helped him develop his business idea and taught him how to get his desired clients. Today, he is cleaned up real good and we forgot how he nearly beat me up for saying he is poor, has no education and his self esteem sucks like an old man's breathe lol.
If you come to me for counseling, do not expect me to be nice please. If you can not handle the truth, dey your lane abeg.
Thank you!!
Love,
V. Effik
You people be motivating the wrong way.
If someone feels frustrated, let them cry, brood, swear, punch the wall of it makes them feel better. I prefer to tell them cry about it, laugh at it, pray about it but face that proble head on.
I told her of cos you are ugly. Look how big your nose is, your eyes are so red like you smoke weed and your dress sense is zero. I can't even understand most of your words because of your pronunciation. By the time I was done listing the things that was wrong with her, she was already crying. I let those things sink in while she sobbed for about 20 minutes.
After we were done crying, I showed her a picture of a physically impaired lady that married the love of her life and went ahead to tell her all the good things about her she left unappreciated.
Next we did was image branding and she agreed to take a one month diction class.
Today she is a proper lady. Na money be fine sissy abeg lol.
How about a guy that came to me that he is poor, nothing is working for him and he is scared that women might not want a poor guy like him. What do you see wrong here? Confidence is at 0%.
After bashing him as is my tradition, I helped him develop his business idea and taught him how to get his desired clients. Today, he is cleaned up real good and we forgot how he nearly beat me up for saying he is poor, has no education and his self esteem sucks like an old man's breathe lol.
If you come to me for counseling, do not expect me to be nice please. If you can not handle the truth, dey your lane abeg.
Thank you!!
Love,
V. Effik
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